Men Come Forward
Mid-twenties man addresses fellow men: When it comes to relationship, this life is not hard. We are the ones making things hard for ourselves as men. There are somethings we men are not supposed to do when looking for a relationship... It's EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT. You don't have to be wicked and ruthless with your woman, you just have to be sensible and emotionally detached.
Some of us are generous - when you give to people, you expect them to be loyal to you, praise you.
If you want something from that woman, you don't need to start gifting her first. Just make your intention known to her. Stop beating around the bush. Respect is what should matter to you as a man not attraction.
Its not your duty to love a woman, she is supposed to love you and not the other way. Even if you love her let her love you more. A woman who loves you will always show it, no matter how arrogant, prideful and egoistic she is.
Leave emotions alone and go for a woman that loves you. Always put yourself first and learn detachment. Dont think you own a woman because you are generous to her. It won't end well.
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