"Don't marry the person you love, you love the person you marry." - Pastor Tunde Ayeni (via @onejoblessboy on X, August 24, 2026: https://x.com/OneJoblessBoy/status/2091785135121215719). [OP's follow-up elaboration in thread: "You can give a woman respect, you can protect her and wisely care for her but NEVER show or tell her you love her. Showing a woman love will make her disrespect you; she will NEVER submit herself to you...
The men in bible times knew this, so they developed a hard heart and encouraged divorce... The reason the men were hard-hearted is not because they were wicked; it is because they knew that the moment you show love to a woman, your value and respect in her eyes will drop faster than the speed of light."]
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