A woman has sparked a conversation online after sharing a letter she said was written to her by a teenage girl who criticised her dressing and linked women's clothing to men's sexual behaviour. In a viral video, the woman said the teenager handed her a letter containing several observations about her conduct and appearance. One part accused her of distracting herself and other people; another advised her to 'be dressed modestly as possible' and claimed that when a man looks at a woman lustfully, most of the blame should be placed on the woman if she is dressed indecently.
The woman said she had not worn anything above her ankles to church for about a year. The letter also claimed women were responsible for men's lust '80% of the time'. She questioned the mindset, particularly because the letter was allegedly written by a girl of about 15 or 16 years old, and raised concerns about how such beliefs could affect the way the teenager might respond if her own child were ever sexually assaulted.

