Lady shares mixed feelings after turning 35 without a husband

She recounted in retrospect that when she was 30 and her 34-year-old friend was getting married, she encouraged herself that she still had time and would marry at 33.

But realizing how fast and far she has come in the blink of an eye, she’s sort of having mixed feelings.

She is conflicted with the opinions of other women who were married in the past, and constantly discouraging her with their experiences and the fact that she deeply wishes for a companion and a kid, at least for when she gets old. Every time she attempts to shove off the discouragement from other women and make intentional actions towards marriage, the thoughts of losing her freedom and peace of mind flashes in her mind.

She confessed that her peace of mind is very important to her, and she fears that a man in her life might alter that. While on this crossroad she’d pray that God should give her an understanding man who would not cut short her ambitions. She concluded by appreciating her mother for praying instead of pressuring her like most African parents would do.

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