Monday In House Lands With A Sigh, A Laugh, A Nod And An Attitude Of Blessedness

Hailings...... MONDAY MEMO Hey!!!! How the go dey go?I hope your day started well? mine did oh.. My weekend, weekended very well..lol A new Column berthed last weekend and it promises to be entertaining...... You can post your adverts in the comment section today with your contacts numbers the way i told you guys to do it...... Things are looking so good and i urge you not to give up on your light in the tunnel........ hugs for a beautiful day! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ *************** A Sigh, A Laugh, A Nod And An Attitude Of Blessedness Some days don’t need noise. They don’t need long speeches or dramatic explanations. They simply need a sigh of relief, a quiet laugh that escapes without permission, a knowing nod that says “I understand,” and an attitude that chooses blessedness over bitterness. Life will always present moments that test your patience, your strength and your peace but the real victory is in how you respond. A sigh means you release what you cannot control. A laugh means you refuse to let heaviness or pettiness win. A nod means you recognize growth and blessedness means you choose gratitude even when the day tries you. Carry this attitude into everything you do. Let your spirit stay light, your heart stay open, and your mind stay focused on what truly matters. Blessedness is not a mood ,it is a decision. ******************** NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS I was on my farm last week when I witnessed something from a distance. A man was driving past when he stopped and offered a young schoolgirl a lift, but she politely declined. Normally, it was quite a long distance from where she was to the main road, so you would think a free ride would be a welcome offer. But she chose to trek instead. Honestly, I was impressed by that child. I have been in a similar situation before, and I know that accepting a seemingly harmless ride doesn't always end well. Years ago, we had a male neighbour who would often offer me a ride in his car whenever I was going to school. At first, he was very pleasant, and I appreciated the gesture. He appeared to be a good person, and even my parents thought highly of him because of the kindness he showed me. Until one day, while I was in his car, he suddenly tried to rub my thighs and lift my skirt. I was shocked. I was disappointed. I couldn't believe that someone who had presented himself as a decent person could behave that way. Although I had my doubt at some point but I didn't trust my instincts and protect myself. So, I applaud that little girl for being able to say no. And before anyone says, "Maybe you misinterpreted the situation," I understand that possibility, I have been there before. I know what it feels like when someone who appears harmless tries to cross a boundary. We should teach children that they are allowed to say NO, even when the person offering them something appears kind, familiar, or trustworthy. Their safety should always come first. That one never open eyes be that, nah dem dey flag cars down now sef....I honestly think the social media exposure has done a lot of harm to the kids than good... You are talking about the one who did not get into a car? who will protect the one who has been exposed to the monster called social media?I was on a content creators page and this person uses their kids to create content and the 6 yr old child rapped a song like Tupac's and called someone a beech..She had makeup and dressed a certain.... ********** INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD 4 My princess is officially three years old and when I took her to pick her birthday gift, she picked children friendly makeup set. And I bought her makeup..... I bought her make up!!!!!. I know how much I frowned on little girls playing with makeup before I had one and I have been humbled, she has never seen me use makeup but I have heard her beg her aunties several times for their’s and I know how much she loves practicing on her brothers and I. Even when she can’t find one she uses her writing marker, I have had my brows and face drawn on several times in my sleep because she is practicing drawing brows. I was first against it but after my sister persuaded me, I am letting her. The other day she painted my nails pink and purple and it was cute watching her furrowed brow while she was focused so hard, trying to do a good job. Watching her face light up when I told her I loved my nails made my day. This experience has humbled me really. If you did not teach her and you dont have make up, where did she learn or know about one? TV???? *************** WEIRD FACTS ------A sophomaniac is a person who’s under the delusion that they are extremely intelligent. ----If someone truly loves you, they tend to hug you for at least 5 seconds or more. ----Couples who spend at least 10 minutes a day laughing together are more likely to have a stronger relationship. ----70% of the oxygen we breathe comes from the ocean. ----The word "lethologica" describes the state of not being able to remember the word you want. *********************************************** BEST HABITS TO BE MORE HEALTHY 1. ‎Drink more than 3 litres of water everyday 2. ‎Make sure to clean your bowel before anything else in the morning 3. ‎Cook food in less oil and avoid deep fried foods 4. ‎Eat fruits and vegetables several servings a day 5. ‎Stretch in the morning and walk whenever you can 6. ‎sit straight and if your back hurts, lie down and rest for sometimes 7. ‎Limit your screen time to avoid excessive exposure to others life. This way you don't compete with others unnecessarily 8. ‎Eat 99.9 percent at home 9. ‎Eat fruits if you have to eat somewhere unusual. *****************