Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine
This one plenty men learn late.
She's very fine.
Educated.
Good job.
Good family.
Maybe even virgin.
Everything looks correct on paper.
But every small disagreement becomes war. She can't take correction. No respect for boundaries. Always creating drama. Everything must go her way.
And because she's desirable, you start telling yourself:
"Nobody is perfect."
"Maybe marriage will settle her."
My brother, shine your eye. 😂
Pretty doesn't cancel difficult character. Education doesn't cancel it. Money doesn't cancel it. Virginity doesn't cancel it.
People can change, yes. But don't marry somebody based on the change you're hoping will happen later.
And that ex you still remember because she was very fine?
If being with her was constantly draining your peace, stop romanticising what you lost.
Sometimes you didn't lose a baddie. You escaped a problem with fine packaging. 😂
Same applies to women choosing men too.
Choose character with your eyes open.
For those already married and dealing with serious issues, different matter entirely. Work on what can be worked on and get proper help where necessary.
But if you're still choosing?
Don't knowingly marry wahala and start praying for peace afterwards.
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