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Plenty time and mental energy men spend chasing women could have been building the man women eventually want.

Nothing wrong with women. Have your woman. Love her. Protect her. Provide when you can. Enjoy being a man beside a woman you care about. There's real satisfaction in that. But she shouldn't consume all your masculine energy.

The same attention you're using to analyse one dry "okay" from her, on WhatsApp for 3 hours is the attention you need to build your body, career, money and future.

Women are part of life. They are not the assignment. Sometimes step away from the game. You'll be surprised how much of yourself you get back. [2 Likes 1 Share]

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Police said the suspects allegedly contacted the victim's brother and demanded R4,000 in exchange for his release.

The victim's brother alerted police, who tracked the driver's vehicle using its tracking system. Officers eventually located and rescued him in Heathfield. SAPS said the victim told police that he had been sexually assaulted by two female suspects while being held by the group.

Five people were arrested in connection with the incident: two women aged 23 and 34, and three men aged 16, 42 and 48.

The suspects are expected to appear before the Wynberg Magistrate's Court on Monday, September 14, to face charges relating to the alleged kidnapping, rape and ransom demand. The allegations have not been tested in court, and the suspects remain innocent unless proven guilty. Source: hostelite.ng

It's always the girl that carries all the cross. She suffers all the shame. She carries the unwanted pregnancy.

Guys will say anything just to have you in bed with them. And how would you know the real ones? Even the quiet, innocent-looking ones - those guys do the worst. Its just a fun game for a lot of guys. [28 Likes 2 Shares]

If they make 10k to 15k daily they will give you all the money to cook or buy something to eat. A visionless man has no future plan - if he gets a contract that gives him 500k or a million naira he will first ask you what you want, buy you unnecessary things and send money to your parents, and when the money is finished he will sit and wait for another one.

Men filled with vision are not like that, they will spend 20 to 30% of their income and invest the rest... They are not interested in priding on being providers, they want to build empires... such men are difficult to be married to, sometimes they bring projects that will drain everything and make you look poor, but in few months, if you are patient you will find yourself in certain lifestyle you never dreamt of.

The reason why most successful men are divorced is because most women are not taught how to be with such men. I'm married to one... we built a factory that occupies about four plot of land from clearing of a virgin land to roofing in a month. The question every lady need to ask is who do I want to be with... but the challenge is most ladies want the men that spend on them now and later want someone that will give them stability.

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