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So yesterday, I told her about it when she came to my house and I showed her the pictures and she was shocked and started begging , telling me the guy was just a friend and that he didn't have anything intimate together but just fun.

If you see the way she was weeping, you will pity her but I didn't.

I told her it's fine but deep down, am done with her

Na to see the other side of me remain

He was always hustling and hoping one day he will make it big. His wife wanted glamour and wanted it now.

She processed papers to travel out of the country to France for herself and leaving the daughter with her husband. She finally got the French visa and travelled out of the country When she got to France, she married a white man so that she will have documents to stay in the country.

To be continued

As far as you are a man, just have it at the back of your mind: you will keep meeting a lot of women asking you for money. If you don't like it, you are free to turn to Bobrisky.

All i can say is women should pity their men the way you ask them for money. There are some things you can get on your own. Not every bill you should place on the guy's head. Na human being too ✅

"Nobody is perfect."

"Maybe marriage will settle her."

My brother, shine your eye. 😂

Pretty doesn't cancel difficult character. Education doesn't cancel it. Money doesn't cancel it. Virginity doesn't cancel it.

People can change, yes. But don't marry somebody based on the change you're hoping will happen later.

And that ex you still remember because she was very fine?

If being with her was constantly draining your peace, stop romanticising what you lost.

Sometimes you didn't lose a baddie. You escaped a problem with fine packaging. 😂

Same applies to women choosing men too.

Choose character with your eyes open.

For those already married and dealing with serious issues, different matter entirely. Work on what can be worked on and get proper help where necessary.

But if you're still choosing?

Don't knowingly marry wahala and start praying for peace afterwards.

“Don't judge her.”

“She may not be jobless by choice.”

“Marry her and build her.”

Fine. But should the same grace not apply to men?

Nobody should be mocked for being unemployed. Jobs disappear, businesses fail and people sometimes struggle through circumstances beyond their control. The real issue is not simply whether someone has a job. It is whether the person has direction, discipline, skills, ambition and a willingness to build.

A woman earning ₦100,000 is not automatically a liability. A woman earning ₦1 million is not automatically an asset. The same applies to men.

A person with little money but a strong work ethic and good character may be a better spouse than someone earning plenty but bringing entitlement, reckless spending and zero responsibility into the marriage.

So stop telling men to ignore financial reality in the name of love.

Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre.

You can choose to build with someone who is still struggling, but make sure you are choosing their character and trajectory, not merely hoping their potential will eventually become reality.

Most importantly, apply the same standard you expect others to accept.

If a woman is free to reject a broke man, a man is free to reject a woman who has no direction.

If you believe unemployment does not determine someone's worth, apply it to both sexes.

Fairness cannot mean one standard for choosing and another standard for being chosen.

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