I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.
The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.
Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.
If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.
I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.
