Men, Being A Good Guy Doesn't Mean She'll Want You
This one plenty men learn too late.
You treat her well. Provide. Stay loyal. Avoid wahala. Do everything a good boyfriend or husband should do.
Yet she's not excited about you.
Then you see the same woman genuinely attracted to another guy who may not even do half of what you do. š
That's when you realise attraction is not a reward for good behaviour.
Sometimes she stays because of comfort, children, religion or family pressure. But staying doesn't mean she's happy or genuinely desires you.
And no, this isn't advice to become a bad guy.
Being a good man and being a man she desires are two different things. You should be both.
Have confidence. Have backbone. Keep your own life. Don't abandon your standards trying to please her.
Most importantly, choose a woman who actually wants you.
Be a good man because that's who you are, not because you're hoping goodness will make a woman desire you.
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