What Actually Lives Rent-free In A Woman's Head

Another time, a lady I knew called me 'fine boy' and smiled; that single compliment was the highlight of my whole day.

That's what makes the typical guy fall in love: positive emotions, showing him kindness and making him feel special and worthy. But the mistake most men make is that we assume women fall for that too - they don't.

When you see a woman who can't stop thinking about a man - checking her phone every five minutes, over-analyzing his chat, craving his presence - that man is causing her pain.

He's giving her negative emotions, tension, inconsistency and rejection energy; he's not making her feel completely secure, and that is exactly why she's obsessed over him.

Women do NOT get obsessed over the man who treats them nicely; the man who makes her feel pain lives in her head rent-free. There's a reason so many women stay loyal to men who don't love them while they cheat on the men who genuinely love them.

You will learn about female nature the hard way - not from posts or advice - when the girl you think 'is not like that' betrays you, and you sit in silence replaying every nice thing you did for her and realize how stupid you were. 8 Likes.