FIND A GIRL YOU REALLY LOVE (NOT LIMERENCE OR INFATUATION) - find a girl that motivate you to become a better man, make sure she is worth it (vet and observe her before you commit) also make sure it is mutual.
A girl will change you and make you want to do better for yourself, before i met my girl, i would goon and go to work or will do it the first thing in the morning, i was always low energy and can't keep a conversation going, what broke the camel back was one day, immediately i finished gooning she called me, even though she was not there i felt so guilty, i was like imagine being with a girl and you still watch porn and masturbating, is that the type of boyfriend you want to be.
