The Ignorance On Nairaland Concerning Women And Marriage
(Quoting Sheffdon: 'I can never marry a single non virgin woman above 24 talkless of a single woman. Never!') When I read comments like this i just laugh because it clearly shows you do not understand women. Guys please note the following salient points: 1. No woman wants to get married early out of their own free will including in the North.
Voluntarily (without religion or society pressure), women only want marriage when they are older and unattractive - ideally from 28+.
Those that get married before then feel they settled too early, have high cheat rates etc. Effectively, women want to maximize their vital currency (youth and fertility). 2. Women dont actually like marriage - this message is for all the guys always talking marry marry marry on nairaland - they only marry and remain married if they are benefiting something and the marriage continues to meet their selfish interests.
3. Point number 2 explains why women who have money often choose to get divorced or become baby mamas. 4. Born again type guys with "no sex before marriage" mantra are going to get disappointed. The question is who were the girls sleeping with before they decided to get married.
It surely isnt the husband. So the husband gets a bad deal - sexual and financial comparison with exes - all the husband gets is baggage from her past.
Marriage institution is in need of serious reforms and renegotiation. The research question is why have women adopted the positions above? [1 Like]
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