Let's Say You Sent A DM To Davido... And This Happened.

There's a good chance you'll screenshot the conversation and post it online just so people can see that Davido noticed you.

Now imagine you message him back and he responds immediately. Then you both start chatting back and forth. All day. Every day. For days. Then weeks. That initial excitement would slowly disappear.

You'd eventually start thinking: "Wait... he's freely giving me all this attention, but I haven't done anything special to earn it." And then: "Wow... maybe Davido isn't as valuable as I thought."

See finish don enter be that. This is similar to what can happen when you freely give a woman attention and always available.

She texts... you reply immediately. She ignores your message for three days... she comes back... you're still reply her immediately. Eventually, she can start thinking: "If this guy has goals, purpose, a busy life, and other options, he won't have this much time for me?" Suddenly, she doesn't value anymore.

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