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Interested in hearing from market traders and people who regularly buy from them about how this actually plays out in different areas.

Also, what would you think of a simple USSD-based method where the buyer records the transaction on their phone, and the trader does not have to enter anything but receives an alert?

Honestly, I feel terrible about it. The exchange rate is crazy, things are expensive over there too, and I feel like I am stressing and draining her.

I love this lady, and the last thing I want is to become a burden or make her lose respect for me because of constant financial dependence.

I want to stand on my own feet and start contributing or at least take care of myself entirely, so she can rest. For those who have successfully navigated this from Nigeria: How did you talk to your woman to let her know you appreciate her but are actively working to stop depending on her, so the relationship stays healthy?

What better solution did yall implore to upgrade yourself or your situation? How was she able to help that it ddnt have to let her break the bank for that help to occur cause she doesn't really have that, but u know if it's you 2 finally combining, it will make things easier.

Please share what worked for you or any legit paths I can follow to change my situation. God bless. [1 Like]

Then I got a notification that said something along the lines of "You're trying to reach out to Fiverr Clients Off the Platform, You have Been Warned".

That's how my orders started dropping. Till it no longer even appeared on Fiverr search at all. And the account is now basically dead.

This is an account with hundreds of 5 star reviews by the way. Anyway, how I knew that they were really tracking and spying was that years down the line, I tried opening an account for someone and it was rejected. For no good reason. Their spyware probably thought it was me trying to open another account.

Well, now I want to open another account. I'm fairly confident that if I start afresh, I should be able to build up something. I'm just worried about their spyware or whatever banning the account again. Has anyone experienced this before? What tools do you use to bypass their spying?

The internet isn't much helpful because this is kind of grey hat stuff. But I know my Naija people would have probably experienced something similar and would know how to go around it.

She also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate it. And the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; so they sewed together fig leaves and made coverings for themselves." - Genesis 3:6-7

(2) Seeking help from native doctors, marabouts or traditional healers: Islam encourages lawful means of healing, but seeking help from sources involving shirk, magic or superstition is strictly prohibited; the Prophet said, "Whoever goes to a fortune teller and asks him about something, his prayer will not be accepted for forty nights" (Sahih Muslim).

(3) Balancing family and social relations: Muslims should respect people of other faiths and maintain good relations, but this does not extend to participating in their rituals; "Whoever harms a dhimmi...

I am his opponent on the Day of Judgment" (Abu Dawood). (4) Practical advice: seek treatment from qualified professionals, rely on du'a and ruqyah, avoid magic and superstition, educate family gently.

(5) Being just toward non-Muslim family members: "Allah does not forbid you from being righteous and just toward those who have not fought you because of religion..." (Al-Mumtahanah 60:8). Islam calls for clear boundaries in worship and reliance on Allah alone.