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And honestly, helping people you care about is not a bad thing. Most of us want to be able to support our parents, siblings and other loved ones.

But there is something people don't always consider: earning a good salary does not mean that all your money is available to spend.

You have your own bills, savings goals, responsibilities and plans for the future. Some of us are also trying to build a life that will make us less financially dependent on our salaries someday.

The tricky part is that when you start saying no, people may think you have changed, become proud or forgotten where you came from.

Meanwhile, you may simply be trying to make your own money last until your next payday.

So I want to ask:

1. Do you think earning a good salary automatically makes someone responsible for helping extended family?
2. Have you ever had to choose between helping someone and meeting your own financial goals?

1. How do you set boundaries without damaging family relationships?

I'd genuinely like to hear people's experiences, especially from those who support family members while trying to build their own financial future

Kingsley, who confessed to be a member of the Vikings confraternity, said he vowed to avenge the de@th of his brother. He said last month, he got wind that the alleged killer of his brother was residing in Ile-Ife. Acting on the information, Kingsley travelled from Anambra and was heading to the Obafemi Awolowo University, OAU, Ile-Ife to attack his brother's alleged murderer who is said to be residing in the school premises.

Luck, however, ran out on him when the police, during a stop-and-search exercise, discovered a cut-to-size pistol and a cartridge on him. He claimed he purchased the pistol from a farmer for N20, 0000. Kingsley was arrested and then confessed to coming to the state to carry out the crime.

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The Director of Public Prosecutions of the Federation, Rotimi Oyedepo, SAN, told the court that the Attorney-General of the Federation and Minister of Justice had reviewed the case file and identified loopholes in the original charge filed by the Inspector-General of Police. Why the government withdrew the charge Oyedepo explained that the documents Adeyemi allegedly forged while operating the purported agency involved offences that fell within the jurisdiction of the FCT High Court rather than the Federal High Court.

He informed the court that a fresh charge had already been filed before the FCT High Court and that the government intended to arraign Adeyemi without delay. The DPPF subsequently asked Justice Umar to strike out the existing charge in line with the law. Defence counsel accepts application Adeyemi’s lawyer, Ibrahim Angulu, SAN, did not oppose the application.

Consequently, Justice Umar granted the request and struck out the eight-count charge, allowing the Federal Government to proceed with the case before the FCT High Court.

Two co-defendants remain at large Adeyemi, 38, was facing trial alongside two other defendants in a case marked FHC/ABJ/CR/25/2025 over allegations of conspiracy and forgery.

The two co-defendants, identified only as Femi and Anu, were reportedly at large, and their surnames were not provided. The fresh charge is expected to form the basis of Adeyemi’s arraignment before the FCT High Court.

If you are in a relationship with a man who wait till month end payday my dear you’re in a situationship, men like that don’t know how to spend on their women. They are kinda stingy, they calculate too much .

If you ask them for financial help they will say can you wait till month end? So annoying Their lives depend on month ending

Choosing signals exist everywhere, quietly, constantly, in every social setting a man enters. Most men are simply never taught to read them simply never taught to read them.

You are not ugly. You are not unfortunate. You simply had no strategy.

What is the biggest mistake you think men make when approaching women they are actually interested in?

Reports gathered that the deceased was a widow who had left her home alongside her youngest child to visit Mbaise.

Investigation claimed that Mbaise had a prior plan to sell the child and murdered the mother to carry out his scheme without interference. A neighbour reportedly spotted him from afar while carrying out his devious deeds.

The unusual activity drew the attention of law enforcement, who later discovered the shallow grave. The suspect was said to have been involved in a similar case in 2015 where he allegedly killed his 25-year-old girlfriend, Chino Ella, whom he impregnated while married with children.

He reportedly caused her death by forcefully aborting the pregnancy and burying her body in a shallow grave within the same compound.

The suspect is currently in police custody as investigations continue, with authorities compiling evidence from past and present cases. At the same time, efforts to ascertain the safe recovery of the missing toddler are ongoing.