Is it already too late for her or he is too hasty?
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About 3 months ago I gave my wife an ultimatum about
our life. Either she starts putting effort in it and start initiating more often or I will reconsider marriage.
I gave her till the end of the year. For three months I waited, nothing changed.
So yesterday I told her that I talked to a lawyer and she should do the same. She freaked out and will not let me give her general outline of the divorce process.
She started making promises about doing better and will not listen to me. I gave up after a while.
Yesterday she initiated and I told her it will not change anything. She got mad and tried to pull my shorts off forcibly.
I kicked her out of the bedroom and told her we will talk in the morning. I said to her that I love her but I have made my decision to divorce.
If she wants to try we can try after divorce and I will marry her again after two-three years if I am convinced that she is capable of giving me the life I need from her. But I do not say the word divorce lightly and unfortunately deadline is over for her.
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