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Silence from a woman who used to talk is not peace. It is a verdict she has not announced yet. By the time she stops arguing, she has usually stopped caring about winning the argument, because she has already started planning her exit.

Has she stopped sharing the small things? Has she stopped initiating contact the way she used to? Has warmth been replaced by politeness? Politeness from someone who was once warm is the coldest signal a relationship can send.

By the time a woman tells you she is done, she has usually been done for a while. The silence was the announcement.

At what point did you realize silence from a woman meant something had already ended?

These run girls know how to rebrand them, they opens a luxury boutique, beauty salon, interior decor firm or real estate agency. Once she becomes a serial Entrepreneur or CEO, her past is officially wiped clean in the eyes of society. Men end up marrying the rebranded version, not the past.

Another reason is that some rich men dealing with intense business, politics or high stakes careers often don't have the patience for traditional courtship or long emotional drama. Runs girls understand men's egos, they know when to be silent, how to make a man feel like a king and how to keep things completely problem free.

What the man pays for initially is convenience but over time, that convenience turns into attachment.

Some rich men actually prefer a woman whose entire lifestyle depends on them. Dating a career woman with her own money and strict boundaries can feel challenging to a man who is used to total control.

By taking a woman out of that transactional space, funding her life, setting up her businesses and upgrading her status, the man feels like her savior and he expects lifelong loyalty in return

These people are not the most dangerous people in marriage.

Who is The Most Dangerous Person in Marriage? The one that eagerly wants to marry you, knows that he or she is a bad person, has planned or thought of evil against you when the marriage happens, does not have feelings or emotions for you, is actively involved to see the marriage happen, makes the marriage process easy for you, pretends to love you, but has zero percent feeling of love for you, and may even want to kill you in the marriage.

Now put that same relationship in a society where people are struggling to survive.

Suddenly, “If he really loves me, he will take care of me” starts sounding very reasonable.

A man buys food, pays rent, sends transport money, handles emergencies and solves problems. Those things can easily become evidence of love because they are meeting very real needs.

So when someone says, “A man who loves me will do everything for me,” we should sometimes look beyond the relationship and look at the economy surrounding it.

For someone who is hungry, financial provision does not feel like a luxury. It feels like love because it is solving a problem.

This does not mean every woman is materialistic, and it does not mean men should be financially exploited. It simply means poverty changes the way people experience relationships.

When everybody has eaten, you can argue about romance.

When people are hungry, love and survival can start speaking the same language.

Women are attracted to goid looking men exactly the way men are attracted to beautiful women. The caveat however is that the world is tough and at a point they have to chose a man with money to cater for their needs and that of their future children. Reason why many men will never experience true love what's you are no longer able to provide for whatever reason that lady dissappears.